1st Amendment (ever hear of it)
So here we go again.....
My ex has called to tell me that my posts need to be taken down before she goes to her lawyer. Perhaps she hasn't watched the news where a student posted about her teacher and what she thought of him. In that case it went to court and it was upheld that it was within her 1st amendment rights as freedom of speech. So until America drops it fundamental rights, this is my blog and I will post as I chose. If she needs the world to know her story she can get her own blog. Then she can tell the world the things she tell me. like how I'm wrong by buying toilet paper in the 12 pack when I'm broke (like a guy without a car should get smaller amounts and risk running out) or the many other pearls of wisdom she desires to share.
along the lines of freedom of speech... people who chose to fuel the feud between me and my ex totally have the right to talk. I know I haven't the right to stop them. But I can ask that they consider what they are doing. It doesn't help anyone.
I'm trying to get working again so I can improve my life, fix my car, and give the ex some money to help her with my son. My ex seems to think that I should already be taking days off to keep my son. I tried to explain that it's Tuesday and I don't know if I'm working this Friday yet and that I'd let her know as soon as I could but that just got me screamed at (again). You would think that I'd be used to this but it really isn't something you get used to at all. But like always she wants it all and wants it now and no matter what I do I'm going to have her complaining.
This is what I live with. I wonder how it lasted as long as it did.
I was asked about how much my attitude has changed in such a short time. Why only last Christmas I seemed happy with my wife and the life I had. Well I lived on optimism, that things would improve if I just gave it time. When my ex chose to tell me that she had filed for a divorce that illusion dissolved and didn't take me long to realise that I hadn't been happy in some time and I was going to be better without the BS. I was of course correct. Now I can reflect and say that things can only get better.
My ex has called to tell me that my posts need to be taken down before she goes to her lawyer. Perhaps she hasn't watched the news where a student posted about her teacher and what she thought of him. In that case it went to court and it was upheld that it was within her 1st amendment rights as freedom of speech. So until America drops it fundamental rights, this is my blog and I will post as I chose. If she needs the world to know her story she can get her own blog. Then she can tell the world the things she tell me. like how I'm wrong by buying toilet paper in the 12 pack when I'm broke (like a guy without a car should get smaller amounts and risk running out) or the many other pearls of wisdom she desires to share.
along the lines of freedom of speech... people who chose to fuel the feud between me and my ex totally have the right to talk. I know I haven't the right to stop them. But I can ask that they consider what they are doing. It doesn't help anyone.
I'm trying to get working again so I can improve my life, fix my car, and give the ex some money to help her with my son. My ex seems to think that I should already be taking days off to keep my son. I tried to explain that it's Tuesday and I don't know if I'm working this Friday yet and that I'd let her know as soon as I could but that just got me screamed at (again). You would think that I'd be used to this but it really isn't something you get used to at all. But like always she wants it all and wants it now and no matter what I do I'm going to have her complaining.
This is what I live with. I wonder how it lasted as long as it did.
I was asked about how much my attitude has changed in such a short time. Why only last Christmas I seemed happy with my wife and the life I had. Well I lived on optimism, that things would improve if I just gave it time. When my ex chose to tell me that she had filed for a divorce that illusion dissolved and didn't take me long to realise that I hadn't been happy in some time and I was going to be better without the BS. I was of course correct. Now I can reflect and say that things can only get better.
posted by AKA AWOL at 8:05 PM
7 Comments:
1st AMMENDMENT!!!!!!!!! hOW ABOUT THE TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!
You made the arraingements to have your son on the weekends, but yet you can't make arraingements to have him picked up. You make comments about me being the Bitch how about the weekends I have driven my son out to you with food for him for the weekend when you have had nothing to feed him. How about telling everyone that reads your blog how you were handed a place to live that my mother had bought for me and my kids. You say you are broke but yet you have ammenities that others (your son) don't have like cable, internet and a house phone, you have a dog that you feed but yet you can't feed your son. You have money for your desires like going on dates and to the movies with a woman but yet you can't make sacrifices for your son. Wake up into reality this is GROWN UP WORLD TIME You made a son now step up to the plate and be a father. The agreement was for you to have your son on the weekends if you have to work you find the sitter and pay for one THAT IS BEING A FATHER. When your son has to go the doctor or hospital GUESS WHAT IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO PAY HALF. READ YOUR DIVORCE PAPRES IT IS IN BLACK AND WHITE. So I suggest you make arraingements to have your son this weekend (hint: find a sitter).
WOW...who did you get to help you with the big words? LMAO! Ok let’s address these points one at a time. Yupp you drove him over to my home, would you have preferred that we walked here? That’s just stupid. OK NEXT... I was given a home after you found the need to rush out of this home, and yes I failed to mention how you did that after to became angered over the fact I didn't break down after you announced that I didn't mind the idea of you leaving me and eagerly embraced my new freedom. As far as my anonymities (there's a word I know damn well you didn't come up with on your own! Please next time type this your self so my readers can see what a dumb bitch you really are, or should I say "dome" that’s how you spelled it) you have 2 cell phones so haw can you say what I should have? You’re upset that I kept the dog? Because I didn't have the heart to up and abandoned another animal like you had us do on a number of occasions? Have you forgotten when I took the job in Florida where you sent me with 20$ and promptly spent 200$ on the dog coco, only to turn around and give him away? Get real. Next a date? I went to a dollar movie with a friend... 2$ to go out and you have room to bitch? You really need to get over the fact that I'm on my own and over you. I don't where you think that I'm so wrong. Yes if my some incurs bills I become responsible for paying half, but you never got around to paying a bill on time and with my current fanatical situation I think it's far to say that it might have to wait if there was a bill. I don't have my mother paying my bills for me. Did you want to talk more about that? How you have to hand over your paychecks over to your mommy because you can't be responsible your own bills? And you have the audacity to tell me to grow up?
And now you’re suggesting I get a babysitter to watch my son while I work? I haven’t even had time to see if I’m working yet, like I told you yesterday I’ll let you know what’s up once I know what I’m doing. You’re once again rushing to conclusions before anyone has time to know what their schedule is. Grow up.
I admit to knowing nothing about this marriage and I can't comment on any of the points of contention here. However, I made the mistake of not marrying awol when I had the chance a long time ago and know what a decent guy he is. In the emails we have exchanged recently it is obvious just how much he loves his son and I find it very hard to believe that he wouldn't do anything he could to be a good father. All he ever wanted was a family and it is a real shame that this hasn't worked out for him.
All I can say is WOW! I had the pleasure of meeting aka_awol this weekend, he is the kindest, most caring man I have ever met. If he gives me a shot, I would love the chance to make him happy. When he speaks of his son, there is nothing but love in his eyes. Things happen in life that are beyond our control sometimes. It appears to me that SOMEONE, needs to go back to the school of life and take a reality check. I lived for 20 years with a man who did not love me, he beat my children and myself. He used me for sexual gratification and for money and then would go on with his life, while I stagnated in our home. I worked he didn't, he earned 5,000 total for the entire marriage, you do the math. I really don't understand how women like that get a great guy like aka_awol, but it appears that it happens. While decent, caring, and loving women like myself continue to get dumped on. One day I only pray that I have the chance with a man like him, or at least partially like him.
Dear Tazzie0612,
I am a family members of Kevins not his ex-wife and all I have to say is watch yourself. My brother talks a big game but threw out his marriage his wife supported HIM. He was with her for six years and he couldn't hold a job. There were maybe two jobs that lasted more than 8months. Yes, when it comes to his son he does love him and would probably give him the world IF he tried. This weekend while you say you meet him, his son was with us for half the weekend because HE can't arrainge to pick up his son. He claims not to have his car working but he sure is able to get on with his life. He hasn't even called his son this past week, not even to say hello I miss you. He is not even given his wife money for their son since she moved out in the beginning of March. My brother may love his son but he sure doesn't know how to show it. He claims it was her choice to move out, but were you aware that while she was still living with him he would boldly be talking to other women on the internet while she was sleeping and his teenage step daughter was in the same room with him? He had his son talking to some girl (18 years old) in Florida telling his son that he loved this woman (girl) and was planning to marry her? Did he tell you how he convinienlty twisted my wife's comment about her parents marraige to suit him and cause problems between our wives?
His soon to be ex-wife is a hard worker, she may need her mom to help her with managing her money but she does not accept money from her or any else. You state that your husband took advantage of you and beat you, I am sorry for that because my wife was also in an abuse marriage before so I can understand your need and want for a good man. IF a good man for you is my brother than I suggested you double check your standard levels because my brother was not faithful to his wife, cheated on her while she was pregnant, told her that the sight of her during pregnancy made him sick. He stated having a child inside was sicking, would not touch her, show no affection that a woman needs during her pregnancy.
I was starting to look up to my brother because of my wife. she kept telling me to give him a chance that the past was in the past, but this time my wife was WRONG he has not change all he is about is himself and his pleasures. All he actually cares about is his internet, XBOX and his sexually gratification.
My brother may try to put me down since we are both Bi-polar, but one difference is I am medicated and yes I have had problems in the past holding a job but I do support my family and I have had the same job now for 4years.
Kevin,
You sure have done it this time. My suggestion to you is please quit publishing this suff about Denise the both of you have a son who someday will here about all of this. If, you want to right stuff put stuff down about yourself and not Denise you know very well that other than what you would call Sexual gratification she was a damn good woman to you.
While Diettrich was with us this weekend we (Louis, Mom and myself) were surprised that not once did he mention you and yes Diettrich spent time with us and mom this weekend and he had a ball. One thing that you will not accomplish is keep his family (your mother) that loves him, away from him. We will always be here for Denise and the kids.
I have tried for years with Denise to have you and your brother get close, but with all the stuff you have written about his mother and your wife, Louis has lost any respect he had for you. Please Kevin think about what you are doing and respect the woman how gave you a son and help her quit working against her.
For your FIY we were and always will be the back up plan for Denise when you neglect to call your son and make arraingements.
And yes just like you used to dog Denise's ex about childsupport and not spending time with Becky you have now become worse than him. You know very well I agree with Denise on the part of you having Diettrich for the weekends, IF YOU HAVE TO WORK FIND A SITTER!!!!!!!! It is your job as a father.
Dear Louis,
I do appreciate your concern. I am not a cold hearted person towards you, your family, or his ex-wife. I do however think that some people just do not belong together, and maybe if he were with someone else he wouldnt be the person that you see. I am sorry, but i dont see the person of which you talk about. The person I see is compassionate, smart, and caring. As far as his son goes, I do know that his car is broke down and he is doing everything he can to fix it. The rest of which you talk about, is none of my business, that is between him and his ex-wife. I do not wish to show you or her any ill will. I do not know where our relationship is heading, for now we are just friends, and I intend to be there for him, as he needs me to be. Life is too short to be angry all the time and to be so careful that you lose out on living. Please try to see that possibly your brother has changed. I truly do not see the man that you do. Thank you.
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