Sunday, May 24, 2009

Just a note for my son

Son I know us being apart for so long has not easy. When you look back I'm sure you will wonder why we were apart. If you think about it I'm sure the answers will be clear. You have been lied to so much, but if you look in to your heart I'm sure you will find the truth.
Here are some questions to ask yourself....
If your Dad had a car would we have seen each other more?
Did your mother have a car?
Were you told you could go to Ceder Point and should save your money?
Did your mother later change her mind and say you couldn't go?
Did your Dad keep trying to get you for a day?
Did your mother NOT give your Dad a date in advance and keep insisting that it wasn't possible?
Did your Dad need advanced notice to request time off work?
Has your dad tried several times to get you, only to have your mother yell or try to give me a hard time?
Was our trip to Ceder Point just your Dads way to give you a great day out?
Was your Dad disappointed that we couldn't go?

Well I hope you can clearly see where the problem lies and will remember long after this and even as you grow old. Knowing that your father has always loved you and valued our time together.

Saturday, May 23, 2009

planning ahead...

“It pays to plan ahead. It wasn't raining when Noah built the ark.”
“Planning is bringing the future into the present so that you can do something about it now”
“Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes; but no plans.”
“Failing to plan is planning to fail”
“Good fortune is what happens when opportunity meets with planning.”

Clearly...

Someone must think I'm stupid. That I'm not capable of reading between the lines to see the motives. You would think they would know me better and know that I'd see right threw the thin veil of excuses and reasons they present. I guess that would be to give them more credit than they deserve. More to come soon